Woman stuck

You know I feel sometime I am stuck in my mind & lots of confusion in that. may be it's around Atmosphere and our family members.

Why they tell us female like growing this way like she handling Kichen, cleaning,  socity tradition and hospitality.  But sometimes I say no yaar here she have so much things for doing her. so why she stuck in the homestuff. If she give relax their mind so she becomes achiever. May be I think she westing thair time and power that place and i think she have so many chances to give her best. may we gave her power you can do it this it's ok you are failed or not successful. But you are try again. you have that experience do you want to achieve. Why she only learn cooking or Home responsibilities she have lots of things to describing her self. May be our societal norms. what they say if she doing modeling,  actor, live alone, this all nonsense stuff for her. What if she don't get married, devorsed,  wido or she taking responsibilities them self and she like to live alone so what...so what...

why society questioning to her and giving her that bad words for her. Why society not change their perspectives to see her ...Why they don't give her courrege while she growing up....I know all family or parents not treating like that. May be socity ko ko unka chehara dekhna jaroor hai ke tumhe apna kam karna chahiye na ki dosharo ke kam mai tang adana. 

 may be this generation showing them mirror if we are giving her courrege so she achiever something for us or her. Sometime I am questioning my self because I want to do this all things. You know always my most of time home and that all stuff handle karne mai hi chala jata hai. And 9 to 5 job then vapis all home stuff ghar ke dusre females hai but kher chhodo unhe kuchh kehna mai sahi nahi samjti. Just i want to doing something for my self.  You know sub kuchh karne ke baad apna physical bahot  hi thak jate hai. So here i have deside this year something for my self. Samay itni teji se chala gaya ki apne aap ke liye kuchh sochna hoga esha question self ne ab Jake kiya hai but it's ok Der aye durust aaye. 

Kyu hame esha lagta hai ke hum aage badhane mai bahot samay lagega, ham bahot pichhe hai, hamre aaspas ka mahol hame kyu demoralize kar raha hai, why constantly my self demoralize and I have no confidence, jo karne ka sochte hai aage ke din vo bhi nahi kar pate, jab hame esha dekhte hai log to kyu bura lagta hai apne liye, kyu frustrating ho jate hai. Mere man bahot hi Asant gai esha feel kar rahi hu, kafi time se mai apne social media mai apne friends ko or parivar ko bhi ignore kar rahi hu, why I am behaving like this. And also I am taking much with others and I am create boundaries and I feel like in this my journey I don't have anything good for me I am feelings like this. My mind constantly very disturbing.